My husband was the first
computer science graduate from his country.
That’s something I learned
about him years and years after we met, got married and immigrated here to New
Zealand. That’s probably the most I know about his past aside from the
companies he worked at and his first wife’s first and middle name. She goes by her
middle name just like my late mother in law and just like I did for decades. I
only reverted to my nickname that my family called me when my married last name
and middle name sounded like a medical term for an affliction. Shortening it by
using Lolly instead of Laurelee sounded much better and it was easier for
people to remember. I’ve actually been told that no matter what they called me,
they didn’t forget me. I’m not sure if that’s a compliment but I’ve always had
this impact on people. When I was in elementary school there even was a
Laurelee hater’s club and a Laurelee
lover’s club. I’d escape this
conundrum at lunchtime by walking the couple of blocks home to the safety of
sitting in front of our new Stromberg Carlson television console while I ate my
delicious tuna sandwich I craved every day and drank my full glass of Adohr
milk to
red light/green light
coordinated by Sheriff John. Any excuse to go home to mommy in the midst of all
this silliness was fine with me. But all my life I’ve attracted both admirers
that can’t get enough of me, and detractors that never want to see me again.
They say I’m a force of nature or something like that. Go figure.
But getting back to John, who
also is a bit different than the majority of normal humans, he made me a
surprise QR Code as a joke on Mother’s Day. Seeing it I realized again that we
need to have his sanity tested, but I went along with the presentation of this
esteemed design that was now hanging on the front of our fridge door, covering
over photos I like of our relatives. Since I don’t believe that using things
like this in our home are necessary, I was curious to see what the message was
inside. So after he scanned it for me with a delighted expression on his proud
face, even I was very pleased. What a guy. He may be a little strange but
wonderfully inventive and certainly one of a kind, my husband. Inside
It reads… And now for something completely
different…
Lollyfairwether.ampbk.com
Without realizing it, he
actually made me a very clever ad showing my author’s website. What a sweetie.
And tonight I see that he framed
the prototype for a real ad
we’re using and hung the image just across from where I write.
When I sat down tonight to create
this blog, I wasn’t exactly sure what I was going to natter on about. The well
was dry after a busy day cleaning out our bedroom and part of our lounge today.
I was not exactly inspired since I missed being outside on this gorgeous fall
day, to work on these inside jobs. But as I sat down I noticed that image hanging
framed on the opposite wall and I haven’t stopped typing since. But it’s odd
that I wrote about drinking Adohr milk since it didn’t occur to me that the
sign that hung from their first dairy truck in the early 1900s is hanging on
the same wall adjacent to the QR Code. The owner of the company that made such
excellent milk, named the company after his first daughter, Rhoda, was born.
Adohr is Rhoda backwards. Although we didn’t get our milk delivered by that
early truck, my mother knew that their milk was superior to products made in
larger commercial companies and it had a very high cream content. Although I
can’t remember where I bought it, I’ve owned this oak framed, painted tin sign
for almost 50 years. The dairy had ceased operation by then.
Marriages and life are never as we expect them
to be and that’s probably a good thing in the long run. John shows very little
outward affection to me. That just isn’t his style. But he hung out the washing
and hung this print of the QR code quietly without any fanfare. I really do have to make him a pie.